What is Living in a College Dorm Like?

Dorm Life: What to Expect 

I. The Living Space

For most students, living in a dorm means having roommates, unless you’re lucky enough to get a room to yourself. You share common areas like kitchens, study lounges, and laundry rooms, which can sometimes be uncomfortable. However, living with roommates is a great way to meet other students. 

II. Dorm Rules and Regulations

In addition, dorm buildings have specific rules and regulations to ensure everything stays orderly. These could include “quiet hours,” guest policies, and regulations on what you can and can’t have in your dorm room. All colleges and universities are different, so checking your college or university’s rules is essential. 

For example, the St. John's University dorm rules and regulations include checking rooms often to ensure they remain safe and clean, only allowing certain appliances and furniture, etc.   

III.  Homesickness

Leaving your home is often accompanied by mixed emotions, and homesickness is among the most common and challenging feelings. The sense of longing for the familiar environment, the comforting presence of family and friends, and the daily routine you are used to can be overwhelming. 

Homesickness can manifest itself in various ways, such as feeling anxious, depressed, or isolated. Coping with homesickness requires patience; find ways to maintain a connection with home while still embracing the new experience of being away. 

IV.  Privacy

One of the biggest challenges students face in the dorms is the need for more privacy. Sharing a space, especially a bedroom, can take some getting used to. The constant presence of roommates can make it challenging to feel comfortable and relaxed in your space. However, with some patience and understanding, it is possible to adjust to dorm life and create a comfortable living situation for everyone. 

V.  Resident Assistants 

In college dorms, Resident Assistants (RAs) are full-time undergraduate students who live in the same building as other students to offer guidance and maintain a safe environment. RAs are responsible for conducting regular room checks, addressing student concerns, and organizing meetings to create community among dorm residents. They serve as a reliable resource for adjusting to campus life and provide support throughout your academic journey.

If you want to know what being an RA is like, check out the St. John’s University Residence Life Instagram for a behind-the-scenes look.

Simple Dorm Tips

Establish roommate boundaries. 

When living with roommates, it’s crucial to establish boundaries. Openly communicating and expressing your needs ensures that they are respected. By setting clear boundaries and discussing them with your roommates, you can avoid potential conflicts and maintain a favorable living situation.

Stay organized.

Since you may be sharing a dorm room with others, staying organized and maximizing your space is important. Drawer organizers, small bins, and closet organizers are all great ways to neatly store your items. When packing for college, it is essential to determine what you need. Do not overpack; there is not much space in a dorm room. 

Personalize your room 

Making your room feel like “home” is important for your overall mental health and well-being in college. Hang up decorations that make you happy and add a few nice touches like a blanket, area rug, and posters. Take a few small items from your bedroom at home to school. These are all ways to personalize and spice up your dorm room.

Sharing bathrooms is another part of dorm life that may be difficult for you at first. Many universities have communal bathrooms, while others provide students with bathrooms in their suites. Regardless, a shower caddy and shower shoes are two essentials for living in a dorm to ensure cleanliness and to keep your things organized.  

How to Thrive Your First Year Living on Campus

Your first year on campus will undoubtedly be a year to remember—make the most of it!  

Join clubs and campus organizations.

Get involved with college clubs and organizations. Universities have a ton of organizations and clubs for students, including Greek life or clubs that cater to a specific interest. Campus events are another great way to get involved within your university and meet new students. The first few weeks of school are dedicated to activities to help students make new friends and join organizations and clubs.

I have been a part of the St. John’s University Red House fashion club as aPublic Relations Chair and an E-Board member. My involvement with Red House has allowed me to find a supportive community and has significantly impacted my academic and professional aspirations. To learn more about what it’s like to explore a club on campus, read my full Q&A. 

Utilize campus resources.

Taking advantage of all university resources is another vital aspect of making the most of your first year of college. It is normal to need extra assistance in your first year; faculty, administrators, and staff at your university are there to help. Universities provide resources like peer tutoring, counseling, and so much more. Be sure to check out what your university offers!

Related: Must-Know St. John’s Resources for First-Year Students

Explore new locations.

Make the most of your first year on campus by exploring areas around your university! Go to restaurants, parks, and events in your area to familiarize yourself with this new location. Going on these adventures with your friends will make long-lasting memories. Remember, there are plenty of great free and inexpensive things to do in and around your college campus!  

Related:Free and Cheap Things to Do in NYC for College Students

Final Thoughts

The experience of living in a college dorm varies. To make your dorm feel more comfortable, try to personalize your space and make it feel like home. Establish boundaries with your roommates and communicate effectively to avoid misunderstandings. Finally, staying organized will help you make the most of your first year of college.