Support, Understand and Accept
College has its share of disappointments and frustrations,
indecision and insecurity. When your student talks about these
commonplace worries, try not to counter by saying “these are the
best years of your life” or “you worry too much.” Simply listening
can be a source of encouragement. Help your student understand that
every period of life has its share of joys and difficulties. Above
all, provide a sympathetic ear and respond with understanding,
acceptance and support.